Choose…

Today, I choose to be happy. I choose to let go. I choose to be myself. To love myself. To cherish myself. Today, I choose to let go of the people whose company is toxic to my peace of mind. Today, I choose to be free. I choose to liberate my soul from the aches it’s been through. Today, I choose to stay away from closed doors. I choose not to craft a wall around my heart. I choose to decorate it with the lessons I’ve learned. I choose to paint it with respect andconfidence. Today, I choose to forgive myself. For being too much of myself. For allowing myself to hurt myself. Today, I choose to embrace my flaws. I choose to accept my mistakes. Today, I choose to change. I choose to be better. I choose to move forward. I choose to guard my soul. Today, I choose to be brave. I choose to say no when saying yes hurts. Today, I choose to be wise. I choose to walk away from places belong. I choose to embrace my time. For that is timeless is precious. All that is precious is unique. All that is unique is different. And all that is different is beautiful. Today, I choose to be beautiful.

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Vo lamha…

Guzarta hun aaj bhi jab un galiyon semain,

To waqt kahin ruk sa jata hai,

Dil karta hai kuch masoom sawaal,

Par naa dhadkano se koi jawaab aata hai,

Rukk si jaati hai ye dhadkane bhi waqt ke
saath,

Jab jab un lamho ka khayal aata hai.

Dekhta hun aaj bhi main jab unhe vahi
apne saath,

Vo nazara hothon par hassi aur

aankhon mein chand aansu bhar lata
hai

Fir bhi un ashko ki bheed mein ek aansu
esa chalak aata hai,

Jinme un yaadon ka gehra aks nazar
aata hai,

Dhoondta hai dil unhe,

Jinke hone se
dhoop me bhi hoti thi chaaon,

Intezaar
hai to bas itna ke zindagi me vo lamha

fir kab laut ke ata hai…

Be with someone who….

Be with someone who will watch your favorite movie with you. Be with someone who make you laugh until your stomach hurts.  Be with someone who wants to go places with you, wether it’s to go shopping, to a wedding or to travel the world.  Be with someone who makes you tea when you’re sick or feeling down. Be with someone who makes the sun shine a little brighter. Be with someone who makes you want to be a better person. Be with someone who enhances your life.

Don’t blame life…

Don’t break a bird’s wings and then tell it to fly. Don’t break a heart and then tell it to love. Don’t break a soul and then tell it to be happy. Don’t see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you. Don’t judge people and expect them to stand by your side. Don’t play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe. Life is about giving and taking. You cannot expect to give bad and receive good. You cannot expect to give good and receive bad. Does it happen? Yes, but don’t make that an excuse for you to keep doing what you know is wrong. Don’t blame life for what you do. That is so selfish and ignorant on your behalf.

Solution to problems…

If you’re going through a problem that you just don’t know how to deal with, try to imagine that one of your friends or loved ones came to you with the same problem. What would you tell them? What kind of advice would you give them to get out of it or deal with it? Unfortunately, we’re more likely to give the right kind of advice to those that we love before we listen to it ourselves. We’re more likely to understand and see what they deserve before we see what we deserve. We’re more like to accept less than what we deserve, because we don’t listen to the advice that we would give to anybody else. So think of the advice you would give to your loved ones, because you yourself should be one of your loved ones. Put yourself in their shoes, put yourself in your shoes, and tell me what kind of advice would you give yourself today to get out of the problem that you’re dealing with?