If you’re going through a problem that you just don’t know how to deal with, try to imagine that one of your friends or loved ones came to you with the same problem. What would you tell them? What kind of advice would you give them to get out of it or deal with it? Unfortunately, we’re more likely to give the right kind of advice to those that we love before we listen to it ourselves. We’re more likely to understand and see what they deserve before we see what we deserve. We’re more like to accept less than what we deserve, because we don’t listen to the advice that we would give to anybody else. So think of the advice you would give to your loved ones, because you yourself should be one of your loved ones. Put yourself in their shoes, put yourself in your shoes, and tell me what kind of advice would you give yourself today to get out of the problem that you’re dealing with?